It is not easy to make a woman fall for you on WhatsApp, especially with whom you have not had much contact in person. But with these strategies, tips, and tricks it is much easier to get a date with that girl you like.
Learn about the 22 best-proven ways to conquer a woman on WhatsApp:
1. Don't reply right away
This makes you look desperate. Not that am I telling you to take days to answer her because you will make her lose interest in you. But you can answer her after a few minutes or a few hours. You can’t definitely be with your phone all the time. You should be busy too.
2. Use the Brad Pitt rule on texting
What if when you ask her out she tells you she's busy? Should you propose another day? According to Brad Pitt's basic rule, if she is really interested in you, she will respond with an alternative; otherwise, she'll just tell you that she can't.
However, with a text message, it is very difficult to see clearly at once what it is that she wants. When she turns you down the first time, don't immediately ask her for another day, as you will seem desperate.
Wait a week or so and ask again. If she gives you the same answer that she can't and doesn't offer you an alternative day, she definitely isn't interested in you.
In short, apply the Brad Pitt rule and ask twice before giving up. No time to waste.
3. Do not send generic messages
Messages like: "Hello!" or "What are you doing?" they're as common as the earth, cluttering up phones around the world. They show no personality and I assure you that if you send it, it is very possible that she will ignore you.
Plus, they're terrible conversation starters. What can she answer if you send her a simple "hello", in addition to returning the greeting?
Why is it important to write a charming first message?
Modern dating has two first impressions, although it's hard to believe: the first impression is when you come face to face with that person and exchange phone numbers. The second “first” impression is when you write to her for the first time.
She may not remember your face very well or she may not have been very interested in you when you first met, but the first text you send her could change things for better or worse.
With your first impression in person you have a lot of tools to demonstrate the 3 elements of charisma: presence, warmth, and power.
4. Do not use language that is too informal or with writing errors
You may think it's superficial, but poor grammar and spelling have a huge negative impact on women's perception of men who write that way.
If you write messages with bad punctuation (poor or excessive), you will appear less mature and intelligent. So, you know, take care of your spelling and grammar when you are writing a message.
5. Don't joke all the time
It is good that you show your sense of humor but in moderation. If you spend all your time joking, it is likely that a meeting will never happen.
You can even send emojis, memes or GIF's to show your sense of humor, of course, all this from time to time and as long as the conversation allows it.
6. Avoid getting caught up in the endless cycle of the calendar
I know that nowadays finding a space to see each other can be a daunting task, but try to propose a day and time for the date. If she can't, make her promise to find a day for you to see each other and that day will be soon.
7. Average the messages you send
You must average your messages in such a way that you do not appear desperate. Be a bit stingy with your exceptional messages both in number and length. You don't want to come across as overly anxious and excited so that it doesn't match her level of enthusiasm.
8. Refer to a previous conversation you had in person
What did I mean by that? Well, simple: show her that you were listening to her when you met in person and that you were memorably impressed.
You can thank her for any recommendation she has made to you or simply remember something funny that happened that day between you.
9. Shorten the times between appointments
Send her clear and direct invitations that tell her what, when and where you would want to see her; something like "I'd like to take you out to dinner at THE PLACE restaurant on Friday at 7pm, let me know if you can."
At this time, being direct and clear will do wonders in the relationship you are trying to establish with her.
Now that you know, ask her out! If you can't that day, don't be discouraged, because it's still a good way to exchange conversation until you manage to find a day off.
You can also try giving her options to exit; For example: "What day do you think you'll go out: Thursday or Friday?" So a Yes/No question becomes a Yes/Yes question.
10. Make it clear if you want to go out with her
One of the things that bother women the most is not being sure if they want to go out with us or if it's just to hang out. Be clear with her and ask her out just the two of you; give her a day and a place.
11. Use humor in your WhatsApp messages
Try to be funny from time to time, because if you are too serious she will misunderstand you. Don't go overboard with your sense of humor either, or she'll think it's a game for you and you could push her away. Try to use a dribble of humor to lighten up the conversation a bit.
12. Wait for her to answer you
You have to wait for her to reply and, of course, show emotion when you reply back. What better way for her to get to know you and take an interest in you if you are genuine about how you feel?
With this I am not telling you to be completely open, and I am not telling you to be a rock without feelings in front of her. Show her that you care. That is something we all love.
13. Wait, expect and marvel
The feelings and behaviors of waiting and uncertainty will lead her to want to know what the outcome will be. And it is that the uncertainty of not knowing when you are going to answer him will make him think of you and he will find you interesting.
Quick responses are read as desperate and predictability blunts attraction, so respond in stages to build anticipation and interest. So take your time to answer what you think is right and attract her even more.
14. Always call her by her name
If you start your message with her name, she will realize (even subconsciously) that you are talking to her and only her. No woman wants to think that she is receiving a message that a man has sent to tons of other women too!
Whatever you do, ALWAYS make sure you spell her name correctly and use the correct name, not other women! If you make this mistake, you may lose any opportunity to go further with this particular woman.
15. Flirt subtly
Flirting will let the girl know that you are interested in her romantically and not just as a friend.
In the beginning, when you are texting her on WhatsApp, remember to keep the flirting clean and subtle. She's not your girlfriend yet! Not only does this make the girl feel special, but it's a sure way to get off to a good start.
Gentle teasing, flirtatious humor, and subtle comments are the perfect kind of thing to do if you want to win over a woman on WhatsApp. Of course, always make sure to read the message before sending it, since if you go over the line you can make her uncomfortable.
16. Compliments do work!
It's in women's nature to want to feel good, and receiving a compliment can change our view of the person giving it to us and make our day seem so much brighter. Just don't go overboard with compliments, as it could make her feel uncomfortable and embarrassed. Besides, that would make you look a little desperate.
A compliment at the right time and about the right thing is a sure way to conquer a woman on WhatsApp, since it will make her smile, you will make her happy and you will also capture her attention in a positive way.
17. Choose a good profile picture
Choosing a great image to display is an important step in conquering a woman on WhatsApp. Find your best selfie and post it.
In case you don't want to use a photo of yourself, you can put an image of something you like, like an artist, a landscape, or a cartoon.
18. Write an original status
WhatsApp shows you a list of default statuses, such as “Available”, but you should try to make your statuses unique. Take some time to think about how you want others to see you.
You can place an excerpt from a song that you like or some reflection that catches your attention. The idea is that with this you get the attention of that special girl and this is a point of conversation.
You can also use the status that lasts only 24 hours to get her attention, placing images and videos that you know are of interest to her and thus get her to talk to you.
19. Try to sound natural and confident.
Usually, the best way to impress someone is to be yourself without trying too hard. Just show yourself as you are. It is very likely that she will notice it.
I understand that nerves are normal, but try to have fun and relax when you talk to her and you will see that things will start to flow. After all, she is human.
20. Do not saturate her with WhatsApp messages
Be patient and give her a reasonable amount of time to respond before you send her another message. Keep in mind that women prefer a long and complete message, instead of a bunch of messages with one or two words.
Use memes, GIF's and emoticons sparingly. It's one thing to send a funny GIF that encourages the conversation and another thing is to SPAM tons of random things that will make her want to leave you. By the way “nobody is above blocking”.
21. Show genuine interest in knowing more about her
If you really like her, want to impress and win her over, you must be honest and let her know that you like to talk to her. Be honest and it will be much easier to have a conversation with her.
Ask her thoughtful questions and listen to everything she has to say. Pay special attention to the details, since from there you can have tools to make it easier for you to conquer her.
Answer what she asks you honestly, in this way you will be showing her that you are really interested in her.
22. Avoid at all costs sending or asking for indecent photos and videos
Maybe you think it's too much for me to tell you, but I have to do it: FOR NOTHING IN THE WORLD DON'T ASK HER OR SEND RUDE PHOTOS OR VIDEOS!
It is something that turns any woman away, as it makes you look like a pervert who is only looking for sex. Remember that she is not yours yet and you do not have the confidence to be in that plan. If you really care, respect it. Everything has its time and place and when you are trying to conquer it, the last thing that should cross your mind is sending pictures or videos that are indecent.
